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I appreciate the part about Likability, Community, and Healthy Relationships, that could be Good to Enhance. Isn't that what we are trying to accomplish here on WhyNotThink?

Communities only exist when you are consciously building them, even those whose raison d’être was there all along, but once they get stagnant, they lose their meaning and become just associations or conferences. In the process of building a community, you need to discuss and arrive at shared understandings regarding the current state of social reality, academic research, theory, and methods, after which you can settle on a commitment to strategy.

Communities need to be diverse, different people from different backgrounds, and different parts of the world, working on different projects. If we all think the same, what is there to discuss? That is the beauty of an on-line, cross-boarder grouping. I wish us all the success in building toward this goal in 2024.

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This is the perfect post for New Years Eve. There is a very big tradition to make what are called "New Year's Resolutions". Not everybody practices it. Talking about values is a very "actionable" thought process for what values am I missing, which do I want to strengthen. The focus of our site is on what I can do to add to my life. (Every day, not just on the beginning of the year.)

So much Internet talking is not actionable. There are huge complaints that society is loosing its value structure. The complaint is focused on communal values that hold society together. But what to do about it? NOTHING. Just shame people by saying what they lack.

Other sites make some talk about "The 76 Best Resolutions". You don't even keep ONE, why take on 76? Or "Spend More Time With The Family". You spend time with what interests you. Maybe "The family's bickering" is not all that interesting?

On Naked Capitalism, he writes his resolutions: 1) More snark, 2) Go easier on CDC and HICPAC, they’re doing their best. 3) Less doom-scrolling, 4) More reading, especially serious books, 5) Don’t relax before sleeping by watching YouTube, the infinite scroll is a seductive time-sink. Keep a sleep diary, 6) No more snacks, 7) Maintain and if need be, upgrade my Covid protocol, 8) Finish my novel. Then sell it, 9) Learn to be less prone to irritation and anger, whether about big things or small.

If he came on our little site he might understand that irritation and anger come from the inconsistency between your should-be beliefs and your perception of reality. You can surely work to "change the world", but changing your anger is done through changing your should-be beliefs.

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